Wilder BrainRuby Wilder's notes The Hey · $1

Free guide · comment FLAGS

The Inside Flags

A free guide to reading your own red, yellow and green flags — the ones that were never really about who you were dating.

I'll email you the guide too. Anything else only if you check the box above.

The Inside Flags — a closed notebook and a house key on a wooden table

This guide will help you:

  • Tell the difference between a real red flag and a loop you're running in your head.
  • Fill in a week's worth of evidence — not just read another list and forget it by Tuesday.
  • Use the same three-step method behind everything on this site: ask, look, write it down.

Here's the thing: you don't usually miss the flags. You re-read the text, check his profile, and talk yourself out of what you already noticed.

You feel when something's off — and instead of writing it down, you re-read it again, wait for a sign, or hope it settles on its own. A feeling doesn't hold up when you're spiraling. A line you wrote down does.

The Inside Flags turns the mirror around: not flags in who you're dating, but flags in how you're treating yourself while you wait for him to text back. Twelve pages, three worksheet pages, one week of evidence.

Fill out the form above to get it now, free.

Right after this guide

The Hey I Didn't Send

The one flag everybody knows: the text you want to send him. Seven pages for the ninety seconds before you send it.

$7 $1 Launch price

Get it · $1